C-L-I-C-K-ing with people !!!

elowz all~ im just figuring out... how other people just can have sooooo good friends in a snap of a finger... im like super amazed by it... cuz i dont have a lot of close friends though... sad eh? whats wrong with me ! TELL ME ! someone ~ ! Aihz... or is there a list of things to do to have a good friend... AH ! just tell me !!! * help? * =(